the good side of everything

I have realised that if you want to be happy you have to see the good side to everything. Whether it be a good day or bad, lets face it.. we all have our negative points... Its sad that we let the little things in life ruin our friendships, our relationships and that is teh worst part of our lives. If we let everything go to our head then we wont have a life left. I might be talking stupid but really just think about it.

There is no point to getting mad at a friend if plans were ruined, or that they ditched you. Be realistic and know that you have done taht once or twice in your life. I mean... just live it day to day. Like today... I might be havingf a really bad day but I know that tomorrow or the next day will make up for it.

I hope that one day I wont be as tense and I can take my own advice.. i mean I know that everyones situation is different.. but try and look at it as .... someone elses life is worse? or someone is dying right now... or someone is sad... that others are feeling liek you are?> one day we will look back on our tears and laugh.... or smile... and know taht our lives are a bit better..

Ciao